Who We Are

From awareness
to infrastructure.

HMS is a bold, consent-forward organization building education, media, and tech that make boundaries and accountability usable in real life — across campuses, institutions, and culture. We are not here to hang posters. We are here to rewrite the code.

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We're making the switch from awareness campaign to infrastructure company.

Despite decades of awareness efforts, consent education remains fragmented, reactive, and culturally disconnected from everyday life. HMS exists to close that gap — building scalable, prevention-focused systems that actually work. Consent becomes common when it's embedded, not explained.

Then

Awareness campaigns. Posters. One-time trainings. Check-the-box compliance.

Now

Infrastructure. Frameworks. Systems that live inside institutions, platforms, and communities.

The result

When New Jersey required affirmative consent in 1992 — lowest rape rate in the nation, less than half the national average. Good code scales.

State in Interest of M.T.S., 129 N.J. 422 (1992); FBI Uniform Crime Reports.

What we believe

Consent isn't about worst-case scenarios. It's about everyday actions you already live.

Regulated nervous systems regulate other nervous systems. Protection is a shared asset, not a scarce resource. When one person understands consent, everyone around them benefits.

That's why HMS operationalizes consent as something that must be clear, mutual, and verifiable — and builds the infrastructure to make that the default, not the exception.

con·sent

consent

/kən-ˈsent/

From Latin consentire: con (together) + sentire (to feel)

A shared sensation — two people choosing to feel together, with the same understanding and the same conditions. HMS operationalizes consent as something that must be clear, mutual, and verifiable.

The mission

Change all 50 state criminal codes in 10 years. Over 75% to go.

2026–2027

Foundation & Proof

Build the revenue engine and evidence base. University pilots, training contracts, and cultural visibility through products and media.

2028–2030

Validation

Pilot state legislative partnerships. New Jersey has required affirmative consent since 1992, with the lowest rape rate in the nation, less than half the national average. Colorado followed in 2022 with unanimous bipartisan support. Good code scales.

Sources: State in Interest of M.T.S., 129 N.J. 422 (1992); FBI Uniform Crime Reports; Colorado SB22-067.

2031–2036

Scale

All 50 states. Proactive consent recognition in every criminal code. When we change "Did she resist?" to "Did she agree?", the violence drops.

Change at this scale takes funding. Help us get there.

Help fund the work →

"I needed to communicate all of this in my own words, with my own voice. If I waited for someone else to speak out, things would never change."

— Shiori Itō, Black Box

The Framework

Every person has a consent code. Here are three worth knowing.

Code 01

Delete.

What are you carrying that was never yours to begin with? Old scripts, inherited shame, someone else's definition of what you owe. Delete them.

Code 02

Edit.

Your operating system was written by someone else. It's time to rewrite it — with clarity, mutual enthusiasm, and the language of people who actually want to be there.

Code 03

Save.

This isn't a one-time read. It's a framework you carry — into every room, every relationship, every institution you touch. Consent becomes infrastructure when you save it.

Consent Codes by Stef Hammett

Our Methodology

The book isn't just a product.
It's our methodology.

"Consent isn't paperwork. It is a shared sensation — a moment in which two human beings have agreed to exist in the same reality, with the same enthusiasm."

In Consent Codes, Stef Hammett exposes the hidden operating system shaping how power, desire, and dignity actually work — in bedrooms, boardrooms, and courtrooms. It is the framework behind everything we build at HMS.

Your consent code is as unique as your fingerprint. Personal. Contextual. Yours.

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