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Everything you need
to run the sequence.

The book. The merch. The reading list. All of it exists to make consent more usable — in your relationships, your community, your culture.

Truth vs. Myth Conversation Deck
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Truth vs. Myth Deck

We don't pull out of hard conversations. We start them.

Cards that spark the conversations most people skip. Learn, share, and start changing the story.

Consent Codes by Stef Hammett

Featured Book

Consent Codes

by Stef Hammett · a product of HMS

Your consent code is as unique as your fingerprint. Personal. Contextual. Yours — the moment you decide to claim it.

Stef Hammett exposes the hidden operating system shaping how power, desire, and dignity actually work — in bedrooms, boardrooms, and courtrooms. Drawing from social research, economics, psychology, and real-world case studies.

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HMS Reading List

Educate yourself.

To understand the context we're changing:

01

Nobody's Girl: My Life in the Epstein Files

by Virginia Giuffre

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02

The Secret History of the Rape Kit: A True Crime Story

by Pagan Kennedy

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03

Black Box (the memoir that led into the film Black Box Diaries)

by Shiori Itō

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Each story highlights how systems fail when clarity and proactive consent aren't built in from the start — and what we're here to fix.

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