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by Stef Hammett · a product of HMS
Your consent code is as unique as your fingerprint. Personal. Contextual. Yours — the moment you decide to claim it.
Stef Hammett exposes the hidden operating system shaping how power, desire, and dignity actually work — in bedrooms, boardrooms, and courtrooms. Drawing from social research, economics, psychology, and real-world case studies.
Get the book →"This book unapologetically names the underlying beliefs shaping our culture around relationships, sex, and consent — the ones that are often felt but rarely spoken out loud."
ashley14 · April 1, 2026
"It tackles seriously underserved societal issues without feeling overwhelming or preachy. It's an easy, approachable read that's packed with thoughtful, practical takeaways."
Lauren L. · April 2, 2026
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HMS Reading List
To understand the context we're changing:
Each story highlights how systems fail when clarity and proactive consent aren't built in from the start — and what we're here to fix.
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