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A consent framework
for real life.

HMS is a bold, consent-forward organization building education, media, and tech that make boundaries and accountability usable in real life — across campuses, institutions, and culture.

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What we do

Consent isn't just a vibe.
It's infrastructure.
Here's how we're building it.

For Campuses & Universities

Have More Safety.

Evidence-based compliance and prevention training. Consent education built around situations students actually face — grounded in real student life.

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Products & Tools

Have More Sex.

Books, merch, and tools for real-life consent. Cultural visibility that makes consent approachable, discussable, and human.

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For Partners & Builders

Have More Space.

Strategic partnerships to embed consent into the tech and systems of daily life. Build the infrastructure with us.

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Our Methodology

Consent Codes

"Consent isn't paperwork. It is a shared sensation — a moment in which two human beings have agreed to exist in the same reality, with the same enthusiasm."

In Consent Codes, Stef Hammett exposes the hidden operating system shaping how power, desire, and dignity actually work — in bedrooms, boardrooms, and courtrooms. The framework behind everything we build at HMS.

Your consent code is as unique as your fingerprint. Personal. Contextual. Yours.

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"My regulated nervous system can help regulate yours. Protection is a shared asset, not a scarce resource."

— Stef Hammett, Consent Codes

Nerd out with us

$122,461

The lifetime economic burden of r*** per victim. This is what we're working to prevent — through infrastructure, not just education.

Peterson, DeGue, Florence, Lokey. "Lifetime Economic Burden of Rape Among U.S. Adults." American Journal of Preventive Medicine 52(6):691-701 (2017). CDC.

Each case carries more than $122K in lifetime costs — absorbed by families, campuses, workplaces, and communities. The CDC estimates a $3.1 trillion total lifetime economic burden, adjusted to over $4 trillion today.

Consent is not a soft topic. It is a line item we're all funding, whether we choose to talk about it or not.